Get Out Of Your Way

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Sometimes we force things.  We don't mean to.  We think we're being proactive, a "go getter", responsible, or even helpful.  And many times we are!  But sometimes we are forcing something that isn't meant to be.  It could be anything...a relationship, job, any opportunity.  We get so stuck in our minds and busy lives we become on autopilot.  We're so busy "making things happen" that we forget to 'ALLOW THINGS TO HAPPEN'.  We have to allow the Universe to do its thing.  It's okay for us to set an intention, put an action out there...but then we have to get out of the way and let what is meant to happen...happen.  Not force something.  If we stay in our heads and live in the place of "making things happen", we don't see what may have been set right in front of us.  We discount or don't even notice blessings and opportunities that come our way because we didn't have a hand in them.  It wasn't our vision.  And those kind of opportunities are usually far greater and far more successful than anything we could ever dream of or create ourselves.  

We need to slow down, breathe, stay present in each moment, and just be.  That way, we don't miss out on subtle yet amazing opportunities that are put in our path.  Of course it's okay to hustle, work hard, and strive towards goals.  That is essential.  But I'm saying don't lose sight of each moment, move out of your own way, so that way you can see the opportunities that are being placed in front of you.  How do we get out of our own way?  By staying grounded.  And how do you stay grounded? Check in with yourself everyday through meditation or quiet time and be present in each moment (not thinking of tonight while working on something in front of you--say like while reading this ;) ).  I know that's easier said than done but that doesn't make it any less critical.

So, do your thing (work hard, have goals and work towards them) but then be present, breathe, and take time each day to be with yourself, quietly (even if it's for 3 minutes!).  This is the only way being fully present in each moment.

XO   Joy